Josh Emery

M.A., L.P.C.

Education:

M.A. – Counseling (Licensed Professional Counselor) - Denver Seminary
B.S. – Finance – University of Colorado, Boulder

Experience:

10 years working with youth, families and couples. Half of this time was spent as a therapist in an inpatient residential facility which gave me a unique opportunity to see families at the ground level in their most vulnerable states. This residential experience was highly relational; focusing on a blend of structure, love, accountability, grace and fun. Therapy consisted of individual, group, family and couples. The therapeutic setting was in constant flux between - facility, home, and wilderness. Working with this population, and in these environments, required flexibility and creativity in my therapy.

During the same period I have maintained a private practice, which focuses on youth, parenting and couples. I have been able to work with clients with a multitude of presenting issues, ranging from infidelity to loss of a loved one. I have also had the opportunity to work in the homes of clients. This approach provides better understanding unto their struggles and the opportunity to give real time alternatives to their habits.

Philosophy:

I believe in a holistic approach to helping, which includes (but is not limited to) relationships, spirituality, exercise, diet, sleep and recreation. I believe in looking at people as part of a system – everything is connected, and it is bad practice to focus only on one element when helping someone emotionally. I believe the soul is an important part of every person and needs to be taken care of. I believe it is important to slow life down so that one can really listen (whether that is listening to our soul, God or our conscience). Making time for reflection and introspection is a good practice, but too much can lead to self-absorption and selfishness.

I believe most people can change if they want to change. I believe safe and healthy relationships are too rare but don’t have to be. I believe the majority of our relational struggles come from our unhealthy sense of self-preservation (otherwise known as pride). I believe humility is central to a healthy relationship and can cover a multitude of mistakes. I believe a healthy marriage is central to a healthy family, and that family will influence many generations to follow.

Personal:

I am a follower of Jesus, which is the backbone of who I am and what I believe. I believe in repentance, forgiveness, grace, restoration and hope. I prefer joy versus happiness (because one is eternal and the other is temporal and circumstantial). I love to laugh and believe there is an immense amount of healing that comes from laughter. I believe life is to be savored not mastered. I prefer nature to city. I am in love with the outdoors and sharing it with those that are close to me, whether it’s mountain biking, backpacking, fly-fishing, snowboarding or a walk along the river. Being outside resets my mind and feeds my soul.

I long to help others experience more of what is available to them. I strive to be intentional in all my relationships, which requires me to have healthy boundaries and to protect the relationships that are dearest to me. I strive to love others as I love myself. I believe Love is the most powerful force on earth.